From Overwhelmed AF to Becoming a Badass DIY Bride
Picture this: little ol’ me, freshly engaged and freaking the fuck out. Overwhelmed AF? Understatement of the year. Enter: the overpriced wedding planner with more upsells than a fast food joint at 2 AM. But here’s where shit gets real—I fired their ass! Why? ‘Cause I realized I could totally own this wedding planning game. Fast forward eight months, and boom! Dream wedding? Check. Bank account still intact? Double-check.
Ayla in da house — Some fun facts about your no-BS virtual wedding planner and your new favorite third wheel
I’m a 5’3″ foul-mouthed soccer mom and wife, obsessed with helping rebellious couples break up with their greedy wedding planners. My journey began not as a planner, but as a fed-up bride sick of ridiculous prices and generic wedding packages that didn’t reflect my relationship. Tired of wedding planners seeing you as walking credit card? I felt the same. So I said, “fuck it,” fired my overpriced wedding planner, and took control to plan my dream wedding on my own terms.
That’s right— I planned the entire thing from my laptop!
Proving that anyone can craft their perfect day without a hefty price tag or a clipboard-wielding planner hovering over them. And now? I’m hell-bent on helping you do the same.
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How I work and what the heck to expect from me as your virtual planning sidekick
- ✽ I’m here to help you side step the bullshit fluff that traditional planners try to push and create a day that truly screams ‘you’!
- ✽ I’ve got your back, always. I will encourage your choices and stand by your side even if it feels like no one else gets your vision, I will!
- ✽ I will empower you with all the tips, tricks, and and rock-solid recommendations for vendors that won’t screw you over.
- ✽ I will be your behind-the-scenes baddass. I’ll handle the chaos silently and let you take the backseat.
- ✽ I’m going to help you embrace your rebellious carefree spirit, cross things off your wedding bucket list and design a day that is stress free and the daring adventure you have envisioned.
- ✽ As a stage 3 serial clinger, you will gain me as a bestie in the process. Someone to vent to, laugh with, and rely on through every step of this crazy journey.
My values
love is love
free palestine
all bodies matter
save the animals
black lives matter
fun facts about ya' girl ayla:
- ✽ Hitched in 2019
- ✽ My go to favorite tv show: American Horror Story
- ✽ Bucket list trip: Thailand
- ✽ Favorite food: In and out burgers (Animal style, of course)
- ✽ Disgustingly obsessed with: Lana Del Ray
- ✽ I have a degree in: Graphic Design
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"We decided to fire our planner. Oh, and the cash we saved? Straight into the down payment for our first home together. Best. Decision. Ever."
Post Wed Vibes: Adventures with My Boo and Babies
Post-wedding life? Oh, it’s straight-up dreamy. After kicking my pricey wedding planner to the curb and DIYing the hell out of my own big day, I’ve been living it up, traveling with my boo and our adorable baby boy. We’re ticking off bucket-list spots, making memories in every corner of the globe, and showing our kids the beauty of this wild world—all on our own terms. It’s proof that when you take control of your big day, you’re really just stepping into an even bigger, bolder life adventure. Who knew saying “I do” was just the beginning?
